Most women find it very easy to confess to others what they like and dislike in bed. However, when it comes to talking about this topic with your partner, they are terrified!
Recently, a follower wrote to me on social media telling me about her frustration: “María, I don’t like how my husband treats me in private. He gives me a little kiss from the beak, he goes straight to the point and, to top it all off, it ends faster than lightning.” I asked him if he had spoken to him and he confessed: “I don’t know how to tell him, I’m afraid of hurting his ego.”
If you are one of those who remain silent and do not dare to express to your partner what you feel, I warn you that your love bond will deteriorate. Communication is essential for a healthy relationship, whether sexual or emotional. Don’t be afraid to express your desires. One of the things that fascinates a man the most is discovering what makes your body vibrate.
If you want to improve intimate dialogue with your partner and you don’t know how to do it, I recommend that you write down what you want to express. Putting what you want to say on paper will give you clarity and help you organize your ideas. This exercise will help you feel more confident when you talk to him.
Choose a time when you are both relaxed and out of the bedroom. First highlight what you like and then propose what you would like to experience, it is not about criticizing. Later, when you have established a more comfortable level of communication, you can tell him about things that you don’t like or that make you feel uncomfortable.
I told this follower the same thing that I say to you today: “The biggest challenge in bed is to vocalize what we want. It’s not easy, but it has to be done.”
I remind you that making love is the deepest form of communication between two beings. Dare to start the dialogue of passion!
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